Even if you don't speak Chinese, you will run into enough locals eager to practise their English. If from such encounters you are subsequently invited to someone's home, a gift might well be expected, though people will not open it in front of you, nor will they express profuse gratitude for it. The Chinese way to express gratitude is through reciprocal actions rather than words. Indeed, elaborate protestations of thanks can be taken as an attempt to avoid obligation. If you are lucky enough to be asked out to a restaurant, you will discover that restaurant bills are not shared out between the guests but instead people will go to great lengths to claim the honour of paying the whole bill by themselves. Normally that honour will fall to the person perceived as the most senior, and as a foreigner dining with Chinese you should make some effort to stake your claim, though it is probable that someone else will grab the bill before you do. Attempting to pay a "share" of the bill may cause serious embarrassment.

Perhaps surprisingly, in view of the above, the main gripe of foreign travellers in China is the relentless and very widespread determination that foreigners should be overcharged at every opportunity. For the traveller this can become wearying and alienating. But for your own equanimity you would do well to accept overcharging to a certain degree rather than fight for your rights all across China. The sums you will be arguing about are often trivial ones. And remember that the average rickshaw driver would consider it a humiliating defeat to carry a foreigner for the same price as a local. Try to inflict that on him and you will stir up real bitterness.

Another factor that Western tourists need to note is that the Chinese have almost no concept of privacy . People will stare at each other from point-blank range and pluck letters or books out of others' hands for close inspection. Even toilets are built with partitions so low that you can chat with your neighbour while squatting. All leisure activities including visits to natural beauty spots or holy relics are done in large noisy groups and the desire of some Western tourists to be "left alone" is variously interpreted by locals as eccentric, arrogant or even sinister.

In a land where privacy is an unheard-of luxury, exotic foreigners inevitably become targets for blatant curiosity , particularly in rural areas. You may at times find people running up and jostling for a better look, exclaiming loudly to each other, Lao Wai, Lao Wai (literally, "old outside person"). This is not intended to be aggressive or insulting though it can give foreigners the uncomfortable feeling of being a zoo animal. One way to render yourself human again is to address the onlookers in Chinese, if you can. Otherwise, perhaps you should just be grateful that people are showing an interest in you.

Apart from staring, various other forms of behaviour perceived as anti-social in the West are considered perfectly normal in China and foreign tourists should bear this in mind before passing judgement. Take the widespread habit of spitting , for example, which can be observed in buses, trains, restaurants and even inside people's homes. Outside the company of urban sophisticates, it would not occur to people that there was anything disrespectful in delivering a powerful spit while in conversation with a stranger. Smoking , likewise, is almost universal among men and in the few places where non-smoking signs have been posted (for example, in soft-seat train compartments) the signs are rarely observed and any attempt to stop others from lighting up is met with incomprehension. As in many countries, handing out cigarettes is a basic way of establishing goodwill and non-smokers should be apologetic about turning down offered cigarettes.

Although China would not normally be described as a liberal country, these days restraints on public behaviour are disappearing remarkably fast. Skimpy clothing in summer is quite normal in all urban areas, particularly among women (less so in the countryside), and even in potentially sensitive Muslim areas, such as the far west, many Han Chinese girls insist on wearing miniskirts and see-through blouses. Although Chinese men commonly wear short trousers and expose their midriffs in hot weather, Western men who do the same should note that the bizarre sight of hairy flesh in public - chest or legs - will instantly become the focus of giggly gossip. The generally relaxed approach to clothing applies equally when visiting temples, though in mosques men and women alike should cover their bodies above the wrists and ankles. As for beachwear , bikinis and briefs are in, but nudity has yet to make its debut.

Skimpy clothing is one thing, but scruffy clothing is quite another. If you want to earn the respect of the Chinese - useful for things like getting served in a restaurant or checking into a hotel - you need to make some effort with your appearance. While the average Chinese peasant might reasonably be expected to have wild hair and wear dirty clothes, for a rich foreigner to do so is likely to arouse a degree of contempt. Another good way to ease your progress is to have a name or business card to flash around - even better if you can include your name in Chinese characters on it.

Hand-shaking is not a Chinese tradition, though it is now fairly common between men. Bodily contact in the form of embraces or back-slapping can be observed between same-sex friends, and these days, in cities, a boy and a girl can walk round arm-in-arm and even kiss without raising an eyebrow. Voice level in China seems to be pitched several decibels louder than in most other countries, though this should not necessarily be interpreted as a sign of belligerence.